There's another thing not everyone figures out right away:
it's almost impossible to go through life all alone.
We need to find our support group - family, friends, companion,
therapy gatherings, team, church or whatever. The kindergarten
admonition applies as long as we live: when you go out
into the world, hold hands and stick together.
It's dangerous out there - lonely, too. Everyone needs someone.
Some assembly is always required.
--Robert Fulchum